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Deborah Lackey

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Date Of Birth: October 13, 1953
Date Of Death: September 1, 2008

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  1. We will miss your bright spirit, your caring heart and the gift you had for making others feel welcome. I cherish every thing you shared with me…. every way you blessed my life.
    Our loss is truly heaven’s gain.

  2. Our sweet Annie, we love you and will miss you terribly. We will miss your laughter and wicked sense of humor. We were truly blessed to have had you in our lives. To Todd and family, we are heartbroken at your loss, you have our deepest condolences and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

  3. Todd my condolences goes out to you and your family. And I want to share a few words that kept me going thu the loss of (CHUCK ) my loving husband. Our family Chain is broken and nothing seems the same; but as God calls us one by one the Chain will link again ! My thoughts and prayer’s will always be with you.

  4. I will always remember annie as a ray of sunshine who could light up any place. My thoughts and prayers are with her family!

  5. As I sit here reading and rereading all of the love and devotions to annie and her family, I realize that annie must be smiling down on all of us. It is my hope and prayer that you Todd,, Annies children, grandchildren and everyone that loved her can somehow make it through tomorrow and we can one day find our smiles again,, making Annie smile with us, as she would want it.

  6. I will always cherish knowing Annie. From the first time meeting both Todd and Annie in Niles, and Mel too! to subsequent meetings and the very sweet trip you both made to our wedding to enjoy it with our family and friends. All the help, advice, and the big smooch as she came up to dance with me during the dollar dance! Travel far and wide my friend, touching all you can with love and smiles like you did right here.

  7. As her energy moves through the universe, it will find you again. Those who are paired so deeply never truely lose one another.

    All the best to you and yours. Things will be as they are destined to be. For one who brought such joy to so many, the rewards are great and only time will provide the gift of understand for such a tragic loss.

    Blessed be, as ever,
    M. Pandora

  8. i will always cherish the times we chatted, and laughed. How she would always show her love for her Man and her family. she is so very thoughtful to ALL who know her, she even sent me a special card when i was pregnant with my son. she was always cheerful and sweet to everyone. dearest Todd and kids, i am so sorry. i treasure the short time i had her as a friend.

    stp

  9. SIR Todd –
    The hugs and laughter from your girl were the “quick fix” to many things that she came across during her journey here. The embedding of those hugs and laughter are in our hearts forever.She left us with the gift of being able to reach out for them when we need to. Whatever you need from me or boy geno , do not even hesitate to use the speed dial – it will be done!
    Our love and gratitutde to you for being a part of our lives and sharing that special part of your annie with us,
    SIR Shane
    and
    boy geno

  10. I will always remember annie’s smile and her ability to immediately instill a feeling of love and joy to all of those around her. My love and best wishes to Todd and the family in this difficult time. she will be smiling down on all of us always.

  11. i am sorry for your loss you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts always. annie was a caring and loving person who touched everyone’s heart that she came across. wether it was for a minute or a lifetime she touched them in a way that we will never forget her.

  12. To the children of Ann, you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Please make peace within yourself.

  13. The very first time I met Annie she nearly tackled me at the car, and I knew right then and there I had a friend forever. Her exuberance was unlike anything I had ever seen and I feel lucky to have been even a small part of her life. She was, and will always be, a wonderfully special lady. My deepest sympathies to Todd and the entire family.

    ~With Love~
    Shawna

  14. There was never a time that I wasn’t met with open arms. Annie who always insisted I call her Mom was always there to lend an ear, a hug or a laugh. She will be so greatly missed by me and everyone that was lucky enough to know her.

    I send my love out to her and the family and if anything is needed please just let me know.

    Love to you all

    Little sweetie ~ Holly ~

  15. Todd and family,

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I really enjoyed working with you and Annie at Special Olympics Indiana events. Annie’s generous personality was an inspiration to all of us. It was a delight and my blessing to get to know both of you.

    You, Annie, and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  16. Annie was a very special person, time with her was too short. She always had a kind word to say, and I could call her any time day or night to get advise, or just to talk. Most people are not fortunate enough to have a good relationship with their Mother in law, I did~I was truly blessed. I will miss her.

  17. The world has lost a very special lady, it is so hard to fathom that she has left us so quickly. I have never met anyone who is quite like Annie, she was a true gem in our community….

    Our familys thoughts and prayers go out to Sir Todd and Family.

  22. Annie will always be in our hearts. She was a beautiful woman inside and out. Sing with the angels sweet lady. Heartfelt condolences go to Todd and family in Your time of need.

  23. I did not get to know Annie very well, because we lived so far apart. I am Todd’s sister, and from what I did know of Annie, she was such a loving, caring and sharing person. I know this is very hard on Todd, especially losing Annie so soon after losing Roger. I love you “Recie”. To Annie’s family, My deepest, Heartfelt Sympathies are with you, and I know she will be sorely missed.

  24. Deborah Annie Lackey

    I remember the smiles she had around every one. The way she treated every one she met. And the great advice she shared when asked. And you knew when she gave it, it was from the heart and soul.

    So long my friendGǪGǪGǪ. Gives one last big ol bear hugsGǪGǪGǪ.

    Den.

  25. Death is nothing at all,
    I have only slipped away into the next room,
    I am I and you are you;
    Whatever we were to each other, That we still are.
    Call me by my old familiar name,
    Speak to me in the easy way which you always used,
    Put no difference in your tone,
    Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
    Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we shared together.
    Let my name ever be the household word that it always was.
    Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it.
    Life means all that it ever meant,
    It is the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
    Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
    I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
    All is well.
    -Henry Scott Holland

    Words alone cannot describe the despair we feel. It is unimaginable the pain that Sir Todd has to bear. Our heartfelt condolences to all the family and the many many friends that will miss annie. Together we share in the sorrow and rejoice in her life on this earth .

    BD and di

  26. My prayers and support go out to all of annie’s family. She truly touched so many lives with her giving spirit, and i feel blessed to have been able to call her my friend. I will cherish the memories of last weekend, when i got to spend so much wonderful time with her. I am trying to hold on to the special annie look of mischief and joy she had when she helped me surprise Bill, it helps me smile when i think of her, and ease the sorrow for a while.

  27. Todd,
    You are in my prayers. I adored Annie and will always remember her bubbly personality. 😀

    Ellen

  28. Annie’s warm and loving heart, and her beautiful smile will be missed by all who knew her. Heaven’s doors will all now be adorned with chocolate kisses, for the first Kiss Fairy Angel has arrived.

  29. annie will be greatly missed… but always fondly remembered as a sweet, kind, generous and gentle soul making me blessed and fortunate to have known her…

  30. Todd and Family,

    Our Condolences are with you at this time. Annie was a great person to know and she always could put a smile on your face when you spoke with her.

  31. Sir Todd,
    my deepest condolences and prayers go with you and annes family, she will be missed by all.

    Master Night
    Rick GLLA7 Security

  32. Officer Todd Lackey & family,

    Our office has you in our thoughts and prayers. We will certainly miss your wife’s kindness and support of our organization.

  33. words can not decribe the sorrow i feel in my heart with annie’s passing. having only met her a few time she has left a lasting impression on my heart and mind. she was the one with a warm smile and words of encouragement. i will never ever forget the last hug she gave me.
    Todd i’m so so sorry for your loss.

    doris

  34. annie was the kind of person that everyone should know. she was caring, charming, loving and funny. with a zest for life rarely seen today. i consider myself lucky to have counted her among my friends.

  35. Although i’d only known Annie for little over a year, she always greeted me with a hug and a smile. I loved her for making me feel like I fit in. I’m thankful I got to spend time with her the weekend before and just enjoy some of her joy and happiness. She has left a giant hole in the hearts of this community, but her spirit will keep us going as we pull together to finish the tasks she was working on. May Sir Todd and her family find comfort in the love and compassion surrounding them at this time.

  36. I don’t know what to say, except that Annie welcomed me with open arms, and open heart, and big smiles into her community of family and friends. I didn’t have the chance to really get to know her, and I will miss that lost opportunity greatly. Sir Todd and family, you all have my sincerest condolences during this difficult time for you.

    Blessings,
    Jennifer

  37. ANNIE WAS A GOOD FRIEND TO ALL SHE MET AND SPOKE TOO ONLINE OR IN HER MANY ENDEAVORS IN HER DAILY LIFE WITH THE USO AND SPECIAL OLYMPICS. SHE GAVE HER WHOLE HEART TO ALL THAT WAS BEFORE HER BE IT HER GRANDCHILDREN, CHILDREN OR FRIENDS.. SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED AND ONE DAY WE WILL SEE HER AGAIN IN THE FUTURE FOR SHE WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON WITH A VERY BIG HEART AND SOUL…

  38. Todd,
    My heartfelt condolensces for the loss of Annie. We never got to be close friends but always enjoyed your company at Scotty/Donna’s or when I saw you on Friday nights at the meet and greet. Annie had such a great time at the Chippendales with me and the rest of the girls. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and friends.

    Sybil

  39. I want to give my condolences to the Lackey family. I will always remember how her smile lit up the room. She was such a gracious lady who will be missed.

  40. Sir and i send our deepest sympathy. i wish i could be there but due to work i cannot. You will be in my thoughts.
    Annie was a doll and i will miss her greatly.

  41. Annie gave of herself to many in the community when they were in need. She touched many lives and will be missed by many.
    My deepest condolences to Todd and Annie’s family during this time of sorrow.

  43. she will always be an angel in the heavens looking down on all of us, wrapping her arms around us when we need it the most.
    she was and is a very special lady.

  44. When you have a “sister” of your own choosing nothing can prepare you for that loss. We can’t even begin to think how 100 times worse it is for your soul mate. Annie was not only Todd’s soul mate but to many of us part of our family. Even though her light is not going to be able to shine on us with her presence, her light will always be with us to guide us and turn away the darkness. We love you Annie, we are there for you Todd when you need us (and when you don’t….*SMILE*) Love Bob and Cindy

  47. ive never know anyone quite like Annie. she was a bright spot in an otherwise mundane life. she helped me in many ways , she encouraged me when i wanted to give up, she saw me thru stomach cancer she let me cry and moan to her many times. ill never forget you Annie you were an exceptional woman and i count myself blessed to have known you and to call you friend. i will miss you.

  51. To Todd and All of Annie’s Family,
    I knew Annie for only a few months but she touched my heart like someone I had known for years. It is rare to find a friend like her. She was like a brilliant, rare & precious diamond in a world full of dull and uncaring people. I know she is in heaven smiling down at us, giving out fairy kisses to everyone and providing the best ’bratty’ comments to liven up the place! Annie touched all of us regardless if we knew her for years, months or mere weeks. She is and always will be a bright, shining star in our hearts and minds that will never fade.

  52. In the short time I knew Annie, I was touched by her warm heart and boundless love. My hope is that Todd and the rest of Annie’s family will feel the warm heart and boundless love of a supportive community in their time of grief and beyond.

  53. For “Faithy”
    THE BROKEN CHAIN

    We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name,

    In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.

    It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone,

    For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.

    You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide,

    And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.

    Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,

    But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.

    –Author Unknown

  54. Richard and I haven’t known her for very long but she did a smile for everone she meets. She will be miss very much. She is in a better place with no worries. Our Condolence to Todd and her family.

  55. Annie was there for me when I didn’t have anyone. She lifted my spirits as I went through chemotherapy by sending me flowers and cards. She would talk me through the rough times and make me laugh.

    She was a truly loving spirit and while Heaven has gained an angel, the world has lost a great woman.

  56. I had just begun to truly know Annie and Todd,,,,,but now she’s on a different journey then the rest of us. I feel blesed to have shared her in my life if only for this short of time,and will always remember that fantastic smile,warm eyes,and the giggle that escaped her lips now and then. We miss her,,,and will for a very long time until we meet again. My heart goes out to her family and want them to know that we honestly feel just how truly special this woman was to them,,,and to us!
    Will and Josi

  57. I was blessed to have talked many times with Annie on yahoo messanger and she was always so sweet and considerate of those that were close to her. I will truely miss her bright smile and cheerful attitude.

  59. Annie was an amazing woman. She always had a smile for everyone she met and knew just how to put people at ease, whether meeting them for the first time or if she had known them a lifetime. I am glad I had the opportunity to know her and share in her smile and spirit.

  60. Sir Todd and family,
    My thouhts and prayers are with you all at this time.

    I will never forget Annie’s smile. She would light up a room when she walked in.

  62. Your smile always brightened a room and others smiled with you. I am blessed to have shared your friendship.

  63. Sir Todd and family, you have my deepest condolences at your loss. Annie was a very special woman, who’s soul was pure and kind. She loved so many and so many loved her in return. Annie always had a kind word and a hug for anyone who needed it. She will be sorely missed, but will be remembered for her quick smile, sense of humor, and giving loving heart.

    Time passes like butterflies in the wind.
    Every moment, every encounter
    As though G-d has touched our soul.
    Annie, sweet Annie,
    So beautiful,
    So beloved,
    So kind.
    You will be remembered forevermore,
    Annie, sweet Annie,
    Our little butterfly in the wind.

  64. Please take our prayers and blessings for you and yours. May the arms of the creator shelter her forever.

  66. Annie was one of the nicest ladies I have ever known. My father adored her and she did everything she could to show her love to him with acts of service. I am truly saddened by the loss of such a jewel. And though she may no longer walk beside him, my daddy’s heart has been transformed into the very essence of who Annie was.

  68. I will always remember Annie’s sweet smile and her willingness to help others. We all enjoyed her friendship in our Gold Wing motorcycle chapter.
    I will remeber you always my friend
    Jack Limp

  69. Thank you, Annie, for touching so many lives while you walked the earth and touching so many lives when you flew onward.

  70. Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss.

    May your family be blessed with strength and peace in this difficult time.

  71. You can shed tears that she is gone
    or you can smile because she has lived.

    You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back
    or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.

    Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
    or you can be full of the love you shared.

    You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
    or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

    You can remember her and only that she’s gone
    or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.

    You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
    or you can do what she’d want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
    Anonymous

  72. When I was a kid, I always looked forward to seeing Aunt Debbie. She was always in a good mood, enjoyed talking to all us kids, and always had a smile on her face. I know she will be missed by her kids.

  73. Annies passing has left a huge hole in a lot of us. Time will heal it but she will never be forgotten. I will love and miss her forever.

  74. I will always remember your open arms and that smile on your face. May you and your family find the peace and love you so truly deserve.

  75. Words can never completely express how much I love you Annie, but you know that already. I will miss you terribly until we meet again someday. I love you toots.

  76. Dear family sorry for your loss. We will surely miss her.I know I have all my memories as we grew up in the old nieghborhood on somerset.My prayers are with all of you.

  77. I’m sorry I was unable to attend in person. I sincerly wish I had been able to go. Annie, I’ll miss you a lot. Please sleep peacefully.

    Always

    Kat

  78. A bright light has left this humble world to join the stars of heaven.
    Let the sorrow flow for it pays tribute to the joy you once had.
    As time goes forward let the remembrance of all the joy you had shine bright to fade out the sorrow so only warmness and happy thoughts remain.

    My thoughts and heart go out to you and your family in this great time of loss.

  79. Annie was a wonderful woman. Strong and caring. I will savor every “Skittle” I eat with a memory of her.

  80. Todd, my friend….Annie will be missed by you and so many others. Hold on to her smile, laughter, memories and heart. Annie will always be with you.
    With love and hugs, Kathy G

  81. Recie,

    I am sooooo sorry to hear of your loss. I know that the Lord is with you, and he will help you through this rough time. When Mom died I found a saying that really helped me thru:

    God never closes one door without opening another.

    When the times get hard just remember that.

    Love and Miss you,

    Penny Willett (Hutchison)

  83. Melanie, My deepest sympathy in your time of loss. I know your mom will be deeply missed. My blessings to you and all your family.

  85. While I wasn’t an insider in their vast circle of friends, I admired Todd and Annie. You can see a strong relationship, strong values and warm hearts from a mile away. Annie will be missed and my thoughts and prayers are with Todd and the rest of the family who will suffer greatly the loss of the in-the-flesh version of the anchor of their love.

  86. Andee, I’m so sorry for your loss. If you need anything, please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. You and your family our in my prayers.

  87. I’m so very sorry for you loss. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers.She is with the good Lord above now watching over all of you.

  88. Annie was a very loving woman who will be missed. I hope for nothing but peace and love for her family.

  89. I only knew annie a short while, compared to most, but it’s clear to me that her time on this earth brought so much joy to those around her.

  90. My fondest memories of annie were always the same. Whenever you seen her you were made to feel like family. Her dedication to her community and family will forever be a standard I hope to oneday achieve. Her smile, her laugh, and her kindness will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you Todd and your family….

  91. This day we are gathered for one who has died
    Dearly departed, but don’t ya dare cry
    I be goin’ ta heav’n in the great blue sky
    This may be so long but it isn’t goodbye
    Remember what was but don’t mourn for what’s gone
    Stike up the band and stay up ’till the dawn
    Your life’s not over, there’s fun to be had
    So pour ye a pint and smile instead
    Lift your glass high for the soul who’s set free
    The Irish in me be drinkin’ with ye

    — Irish Funeral Toast

    Let us not mourn our friends death, but celebrate her life and her legacy.

  92. Annie, Todd, we always looked forward to seeing you, we always missed you when we left, and now we will be missing Annie forevermore. All our friendship and love,
    Steve and Theresa

  93. Andee, I am very sorry for your loss. My thoghts and prayers are with you and your family. Let me know if there is anything that I can do. Sincerely, Christina Ahnafield

  94. Celebrating a life well lived. We, along with so many others, will cherish our memories of Annie, her quick smiles and loving hugs, forever.
    Our thoughts are with Annie’s entire family today. May they feel the warmth of her love returned to them through the memories shared with family and friends.

  95. I am so sorry to hear of your loss Todd, Annie was a wonderful woman and she will be sorely missed. My heart and prayers go out to you and yours. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.

  96. annie you were always a wonderful person to be around. We will always remember your amazing smiling face and the warmth of your hugs that we got to enjoy everyime we saw you. We will always love you and miss your sweet personality. you were a joy to have as a friend in life and will be sorely missed. May the influences you made here upon this earth be everlasting. We love you and will do our best to love Todd as you would have wanted. Your family will never be the same without you. Thank you for all that you gave to us!

  97. My deepest Condolences for Todd and all of her family. Annie was the light of Todd life and he was hers. She always had a smile on her face and loved life. She will truely be missed. I know she is looking down on all of her family and friends and is giving us all the strength we need today and in the days to follow.

  98. Annie always brightened my day every time I saw her. her smile was constant as she welcomed everyone. She brought happiness and love to so many people and there is no greater gift than to be remembered as someone who brought happiness and love to others.

  99. Annie was one of the sweetest and most loving people I have ever had the pleasure of meeting! She was a beaken of light and one could not help themselves but love her for it! I treasure the freindship we had built recently and will miss her tremendiously! My heart breaks for her family and I wish them all the best with deep simpathy in this terrible time! She is watchign over us still and has her arms around us I am certain! 😉 She will allways be with us in our hearts!

    In Love and light. Jeni

  100. Native America Prayer

    Do not stand at my bier and weep,
    I am not there. I do not sleep,
    I am a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the diamond glints on snow,
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
    I am the gentle autumn’s rain.
    When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
    I am the swift, uplifting rush of
    Quiet birds in circled flight.
    I am the soft stars that shine at night.
    Do not stand at my bier and cry;
    I am not there, I did not die.

    This pryaer reminds us of Annie because of her pure love and love of life. Her love will continue to shine within all of us that knew her. Her journey has not ended. Our love, prayers, and support goes out to Todd and his family.

  101. Sir Todd and family..Oour condolences to You and your family on the loss of this beautiful woman who always put a smile on people’s faces even if they were so low no one else could make them smile. She was and always be a very important person to me (rosey). She always had a shoulder to cry on. Im sure she is looking down on us and smiling…love Yyou all.

  102. One word frees us
    Of all the weight and pain in life,
    That word is Love
    ~ Socrates ~

    I remember this incredibly groomed, beautiful woman moving though the room. Who was she with I wondered. I then, saw the look in her eyes as she watched you and I knew. Let that memory lighten grief.

    Caro

  104. Dear Melanie…
    I am so sorry for your loss of your mother.. You and your family will be in our prayers… Take care and God Bless you…

    Anna Edwards Sisk

  105. Annie always had a smile and a hug for me. Her kind words buoyed me up in rough times. She will be greatly missed.

    Todd and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.

  107. Todd & family,

    Although I only knew Annie for a few short years, I feel like I have lost a sister. She was always so positive and upbeat. She was a true friend in every sense of the word. I will miss her warm smile and friendly chats.

    My deepest sympathies to all of you

    Lanie

  108. Todd,
    I wish I could have been a part of annies services. I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could have thanked annie personally for all she did for me and I thank you now for the same. All my love,
    Angel

  109. My thoughts and prayers are with Annie’s family. Her beautiful smile and wonderful personality will be missed.

    Solitaire Russell

  110. My deepest sympathies to your family.I will miss her and remember her as the little girl who played with my girls and as they grew up together.My prayers are with you.

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